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Friday, November 26, 2010 at 12:56 am

who do u choose to help?

while crossing the road back home juz now, witness a rather stunting scene.. while standing at the middle of the width of the road waiting for the traffic light to change, saw a female figure right in the centre lane of the road.. n then came a car passing by me going towards her at a rather fast speed.. luckily the driver spotted her in time n managed to avoid her.. n then she left her position to go back to the bus stop to carry on her quarrel wif her bf/husband b4 the flood of vehicles came..

while i must admit i was too stunted to react, i did wonder to myself tat if i was slightly faster in recovering frm my shock, shld i hav dashed out onto the road to alert/divert the car? would it hav been worth it to risk my life in exchange for someone else's life whom she herself doesnt cherish? i guess the ans is no.. n i guess tat applies to this as well...

it first started wif being there for E thru a period of hard time for her, listening n giving her advice as n when she needed.. n when i saw the thanks she had for my presence, describing it as "a gift frm god" even", the happiness i felt told me it was all worth it.. n so i went out n helped those whom i could connect wif n were needed.. sort of helped N thru a period of confusion, n then M.. i put in alot of effort for M, becoz i felt she deserved my efforts, tat life had been too harsh on her n too kind on me.. m really glad to hav had such a wonderful friendship wif her, even if i were to then destroy it all last year.. all of them, i helped not becoz i wanted anythng in return, i juz felt it was the right thing to do.. n my efforts hav all been justified, by their moving on, by their appreciation for our r/s.

but when it comes to someone who doesnt wan to help him/herself, wad shld i do?? wad would u do? would my time n effort b more well spent on others who wants the help, or would it b worthwhile to perservere n end up being smack right in ur face??

it sucks to hav started the race without u, but i simply can no longer afford to wait for u. i've given u plenty of chances to catch up, but all u seem to do is juz get distracted by the sceneries by the side even more. today, i'll say my piece, n comment no more.. come the end of the day, if u're not here, u're not here.

seriously, stop all the crap talk n meaningless activities.. all of tat does nth to help in the exams. most of all, stop all the mishy mushy language.. its seriously v wrong.. now, its time for me to sharpen my knives n cut my ties wif most/all of u. goodbye, n thanks for the memories.


him

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schools

Townsville Pri
Saint Gabriels' Sec
Singapore Poly
BMTC School 1
School of Infantry Specialists
Engineer Training Institue
Armoured Engineer Training Centre
Nanyang Technological University

affiliations

ALA School of Talents
SGSSRCY
NCHSRCY
Blossom
Danisco
F&N Coca-Cola
Pokka
Paragon Market Place
Apache P2 S1
Charlie P3 S3
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ASTW P2 S4
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SYOG Housekeeping - Grad Hall
WSC - TCS
CCCLR

likes

soccer
mathematics
jay chou
mother nature
reading
using my brain
puma
man utd
italia

kinda dislikes

changes
socialising
singaporeans

life logics

keep walking - johnnie walker

i think, therefore i am.

everything happens for a reason.

a child owes his parents everything.

there is no forever, no eternal either.

His 2011

6th Jan - Rou Hui & Amy Bday
6th Jan to 11th Jan - Family TW trip
12th Jan - Rena Bday
16th Jan - Yun Shan Bday
24th Jan - Jia Sheng Bday
28th Jan - Edmund Bday
30th Jan - Eileen Tan Bday
6th Feb - Christopher Bday
14th Feb - Yong Jie Bday
15th Feb - Katie Bday
17th Feb - Felix Bday
19th Feb - You Qiang Bday
22th Feb - Leslie Bday
27th Feb - NTUC U-Run 2011
28th Feb - Yiyang Bday
4th Mar - Yong Guang Bday
11th Mar - Hong Xi & Kar Mun Bday
27th Mar - Liang Jimm Bday
4th Apr - Samuel Bday
11th Apr - Dillion Bday
17th Apr - Uncle Lam & Shawn Chia Bday
20th Apr - Cai Fa & Yuen Meng Bday
23rd Apr - Llukelly Bday
26th Apr - Elton Bday
 30th Apr - Jeremy Bday
1st May - Sheng Yang Bday
3rd May - Michael Bday
6th May - Edwin & Mabel Bday
11th May - Elvin Bday
16th May - Jiayi Bday
21st May - Suraj Bday
21st May - PAssion Run 2011
23rd May - Jun Hong Bday
24th May - Amelia Bday
28th May - Sundown Marathon 2011
1st Jun - Jamie Bday
3rd Jun - Mei Zi Bday
7th Jun - Uncle Chew Bday
8th Jun - Weng Hua Bday
10th Jun - Manru Bday
12th Jun - Pei Xuan & Wayne Lim Bday
14th Jun - Chee Kit Bday
15th Jun - Shun Qiang Bday
16th Jun - Reuben & CSM Bday
17th Jun - Yu Ching Bday
17th & 18th Jun - WSC Summer Camp 2011
29th Jun - Jia Yi & Yvonne Bday
3rd Jul - Hui Kee Bday
5th Jul - Kian Wei Bday
9th Jul - Lay Eng, Shi Kiat & Meng Yeow Bday
10th Jul - Nadia & Jie Sheng Bday
13th Jul - Kai Png Bday
25th Jul - Huiyu Bday
26th Jul - Elaine Bday
28th Jul - Li Ning & Hui Xiang Bday
31st Jul - Alina Bday
1st Aug - Wen Hao Bday
5th Aug - Darren Chia Bday
6th Aug - Hamtaro Bday
11th Aug - Josirlyn Bday
16th Aug - Shafiq Bday
19th Aug - Eugene Seah Bday
21st Aug - Qianbing Bday
22nd Aug - Lay Boon Bday
28th Aug - Evangeline Bday
29th Aug - Linda & Deborah Bday
31st Aug - Kai Bin & Sabrina Bday
1st Sep - Pearly Bday
3rd Sep - Hwee Lee Bday
4th Sep - Denny Bday
7th Sep - Mama Bday
13th Sep - Xi Xun Bday
19th Sep - Joseph Bday
21st Sep - Miao Hong Bday
25th Sep - Wei Min Bday
26th Sep - Jeffrey Bday
1st Oct - Christina Bday
4th Oct - Jia Yang Bday
6th Oct - Tee Tong Bday
14th Oct - Alwin & Chin Seng Bday
15th Oct - Carol & Cynthia Bday
16th Oct - Li Ting Bday
18th Oct - Karen Bday
25th Oct - Su Qi Bday
26th Oct - Wen Qian Bday
31st Oct - Nelson Tan Bday
1st Nov - Jeyshanker Bday
2nd Nov - Nasir Bday
3rd Nov - Shi Liang Bday
5th Nov - Mun Wei Bday
7th Nov - Shermain Bday
18th Nov - Raj Bday
23rd Nov - Chester Bday
25th Nov - Pik Xuan Bday
26th Nov - Zhen Yang & Ming Li Bday
26th Nov - ZY & ML's Wedding
27th Nov - Chun Yong Bday
28th Nov - Laopa Bday
30th Nov - Alton Bday
6th Dec - Qing Wei Bday
7th Dec - Mandy Bday
8th Dec - Melissa Tan Bday
9th Dec - Xi Ning Bday
13th Dec - Teng Siong Bday
17th Dec - Andrew Goh Bday
18th Dec - Nurul Bday
19th Dec - Kok Kiang & Darren Teng Bday
23rd Dec - Nicholas Teo & Clarene Bday
27th Dec - Yi Hao Bday
31st Dec - Last Day of 2011

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